I was interviewed by Jane Pribek for an article in the Wisconsin Law Journal on the topic of Sex Addiction.  I appreciate the Wisconsin Law Journal's interest in educating lawyers about this complex subject that they are encountering in their legal practices and sharing the perspectives of attorneys who have already faced the problems Read More

Partners of Sex Addicts Seminar 4.30.11

Partners of Sex Addicts have specific treatment needs to help them deal with the trauma, distress and complications of being a partner of a sexually compulsive person. In this upcoming workshop in Houston, Texas on April 30, 2011, partners of sex addicts will receive not only information and support but also an opportunity to share Read More

Depressed Woman

Depression is insidious. It can sneak up on you so slowly that you don't even realize what is happening. Or it can begin suddenly. You don't even remember when you started to feel bad…but you know you do. It can start in response to a stressful or traumatic event. Or there may be Read More

Winter Blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder?

The holidays are over. The days are long. It's dark going to work and dark when you get home. Kind of depressing.

How do you tell when you are experiencing the temporary blahs due to winter –  changes in sunlight, cold weather and post holiday let down –  or a more serious depression such as Seasonal Affective Disorder?

In his book Winter Blues:

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Snow Family of Sex Addict

You are the partner of a sex addict – wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend. Your spouse is or is not in a recovery program. Either situation is stressful.

You fear relapse. You experience grief and anger. You are trying to put together the pieces of your life. Then the holiday season approaches. Vacation. Time off. Family. Read More

Sex Addict Snowmen Brothers In Recovery

You are a Sex Addict in Recovery. Good for you. You are working a solid recovery program including therapy, 12 Step groups, a sponsor and a supportive community. You are making progress. Sober on your inner circle behaviors. Taking care of yourself and by extension your partner and family.

Here comes December. Holidays. Vacation. Family. Read More

Sexually Abused Man Comes Forward

1 out of 6 men are sexually abused as children. Research shows that a large percentage of sexually addicted and other addicted  men were sexually abused and/or abused in some other way as children.  Addiction becomes a way to cope with the pain of the abuse.

Shame, humiliation, fear and misplaced beliefs stop men from talking Read More

Barbara Steffens PhD LPCC Interview 4 of 4

This is the final segment of the four part series of interviews that Barbara Steffens, Ph.D, LPCC, co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal with Marsha Means, MA, did with JoAnn Russell, RN, MS at www.marriedtoasexaddict.com.

In this interview Barbara touches on a variety of relevant issues involved in the process Read More

Barbara Steffens PhD LPCC Interview 3 of 4

This is the third of four interviews Barbara Steffens, Ph.D, LPCC, co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal with Marsha Means, MA, did with JoAnn Russell, RN, MS at www.marriedtoasexaddict.com.

In this third interview, Barbara addresses issues including the trauma partners experience both on disclosure and living with a sex addict Read More

Barbara Steffens PhD LPCC Interview 2 of 4

Here is the second of four interviews Barbara Steffens, Ph.D, LPCC, co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal with Marsha Means, MA, did with JoAnn Russell, RN, MS at www.marriedtoasexaddict.com. In this segment, Barbara continues to discuss how partners worlds are shaken when they learn about their spouses sex addiction. Read More